Tired of Drama

I am so tired of all the drama around here, especially with Ashley. I thought she was a good friend, but I'm beginning to think it's a front. It would take waaaaaaaaay too long to explain, but I'll give you the short version.

Ashley and Doug are having marriage problems. Honestly, we all saw it coming. They met in Bridgeport, CT in October of 2006 on a TAD trip. She made weekend trips to Jacksonville to visit him until we left for Iraq in February of 2007. When September came and the band returned from Iraq, they got married!! S-t-u-p-i-d. I don't think she was actually in love with him - she was in love with the idea of marrying a marine. They've been married for a year now and are on the verge of separating. She isn't attracted to him anymore, isn't in love with him, and thinks she can control his life. She is a complete bitch to him and walks all over him. What sucks is that she has been a very good friend to me, so it's hard to feel so negatively about her. One of the guys in the band has started to have feelings for her and the two of them hang out alone all the time. I told her that I don't think they should spend so much time alone, because it will only cause his feelings to grow. Her response? "I'm not changing for anyone." She says she wants her marriage to work, but she's not willing to change at all - kind of a problem!! When we go out to bars she is always looking at other guys and wants to do naughty things with them... tisk tisk. She hasn't had sex with her husband in over 6 months. What the hell?! That's problem #1!

I'm too tired to think of all this crap write now. I'll give an update later.